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It is at times like these when I think the words, songs, and break-up quotes of others touch a note with us to let us know that they have been through the same ordeal before — and survived it. It also lets us know that we are not alone, and that we are understood. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have — life itself. If you are passive, you allow negative things to come into your life.
My boyfriend and I were together for over three years, and then we weren't. The days after the breakup involved lots of crying, and an embarrassing amount of Taylor Swift. A couple of weeks later, once I was able to will myself out of sweatpants, my friend Eric — who was also coping with a breakup — came over for some IPAs and, of course, Taylor Swift singalongs. We commiserated about how much life sucked, how lonely we felt and how we were losing sleep.